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10-08-2009, 09:12 AM
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hmoob idol
Join Date: Sep 2007
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i wanna date a nice thick and delicious black lady...yumm yumm 
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10-26-2009, 01:56 PM
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hmoob idol
Join Date: Mar 2006
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Originally Posted by rog5272
i wanna date a nice thick and delicious black lady...yumm yumm |
what ever floats your boat...
some of them do look good but man its that attitude i have a problem with.... |
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11-07-2009, 09:53 AM
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just average
Join Date: Nov 2009
Location: sacramento
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I think interracial dating is a great idea........especially when the other option is dating you cousin and having your parents be ok with it just because she/he has a different last name then yours
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11-13-2009, 05:18 PM
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hmoob idol
Join Date: Jun 2008
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Originally Posted by timandku
I think interracial dating is a great idea........especially when the other option is dating you cousin and having your parents be ok with it just because she/he has a different last name then yours
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In that case, I think dating your own race is a great idea....especially when the other option is dating other races who stereotype you.
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11-14-2009, 04:42 PM
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just average
Join Date: Nov 2009
Location: sacramento
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I guess the real question that were all forgetting to ask our self is.........is dating asian but not Hmong considered other interracial dating?
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02-04-2010, 01:09 PM
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hmoob idol
Join Date: Feb 2010
Location: You're looking at it...
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I don't know what the concerns or issues are in terms of dating outside the hmong race. Should be welcomed, yes? At the end of the day, it's YOUR life, isn't it?
Have it it, I say.
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02-06-2010, 11:02 AM
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Join Date: Feb 2010
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I don't mind dating out of my race. just don't want to marry them. my mom won't be able to speak to her in Hmong. that would be boring for her. :)
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02-06-2010, 11:18 AM
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hmoob idol
Join Date: Feb 2010
Location: You're looking at it...
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Originally Posted by jbutton
I don't mind dating out of my race. just don't want to marry them. my mom won't be able to speak to her in Hmong. that would be boring for her. :)
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I hear ya. However...could it be overlooked?
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02-06-2010, 07:42 PM
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Join Date: Feb 2010
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Originally Posted by HmoobPahAy
I hear ya. However...could it be overlooked?
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It could.
Who knows.. she could be better than a Hmong girl.
I like Thai girls. :) |
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02-06-2010, 08:14 PM
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hmoob idol
Join Date: Feb 2010
Location: You're looking at it...
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Originally Posted by jbutton
It could.
Who knows.. she could be better than a Hmong girl.
I like Thai girls. :)
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It would be a great thing, ya know. My "interest" right now --- she's half Korean. Super bright, positively infectious personality, and has a great work ethic. Very open minded and driven to be her best. You can't beat that.
To better encapsulate, aren't those the qualities all of our parents had hoped for us to find and attain, regarding a soul mate? 
I mean, c'mon...say it like it is, mang. Right?
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Last edited by HmoobPahAy; 02-06-2010 at 08:35 PM.
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02-09-2010, 01:08 PM
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resident post whore
Join Date: Mar 2006
Location: southern california
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Originally Posted by HmoobPahAy
It would be a great thing, ya know. My "interest" right now --- she's half Korean. Super bright, positively infectious personality, and has a great work ethic. Very open minded and driven to be her best. You can't beat that.
To better encapsulate, aren't those the qualities all of our parents had hoped for us to find and attain, regarding a soul mate?
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Hmoob parents... particularly mothers, will
1. want you to find a lady with all those qualities.
2. When you find her, they will say why not a hmong girl
3. when you find a hmong girl, the expectations then go all the way up.
Traditional Hmong mothers don't want a nice girl for you.. they want a maid for them. lol We just have to suck it up and live our lives the way we want it, but it is still very important to be respectful of our parents wishes.
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02-09-2010, 01:27 PM
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hmoob idol
Join Date: Feb 2010
Location: You're looking at it...
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Originally Posted by tyger
Hmoob parents... particularly mothers, will
1. want you to find a lady with all those qualities.
2. When you find her, they will say why not a hmong girl
3. when you find a hmong girl, the expectations then go all the way up.
Traditional Hmong mothers don't want a nice girl for you.. they want a maid for them. lol We just have to suck it up and live our lives the way we want it, but it is still very important to be respectful of our parents wishes.
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Ya know...THAT is soooo effen true...at least from what I can observe of immediate families sometimes. The genuine acceptance and cultivating of family love often turn into life-long abrasiveness toward each other.
That whole "maid" thing does have some truths to it.  
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Last edited by HmoobPahAy; 02-09-2010 at 01:40 PM.
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02-26-2010, 07:03 AM
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wannabe
Join Date: Feb 2010
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Originally Posted by tyger
Hmoob parents... particularly mothers, will
1. want you to find a lady with all those qualities.
2. When you find her, they will say why not a hmong girl
3. when you find a hmong girl, the expectations then go all the way up.
Traditional Hmong mothers don't want a nice girl for you.. they want a maid for them. lol We just have to suck it up and live our lives the way we want it, but it is still very important to be respectful of our parents wishes.
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Lol... dude but the thing is.... is that your parents want whats best for you.... they dont want a wife that doesnt know how to cook or clean, a lazy one.... trust me, what they want is someone that would take care of you.... and you know that goes the same for women too. Their parents want a husband who will work and take care of their daughter..... |
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07-29-2010, 11:48 PM
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wannabe
Join Date: Jul 2010
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Interracial dating has always been a hot topic and will probably remain. The fans are very satisfied and feel that the stigma is about ridiculous and should be ignored. If you did, you missed a great opportunity to meet someone who might just have what you are looking for. Inter-racial dating is a way to learn more about the people and cultures.
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